Body Language

Body language is very important to show that you care for the person or not. Body language says it all even the tone of your voice. When a person comes to you and need your help, he/she wants you to understand their pain or give them advice. This is where you need your listening skills to help you with it. One of the examples of using a body language in these kind of situations are trying to hold their hand; thus you can understand the pain from there. Other than that is giving a long hug and holding him/her tightly stating that everything is going to be fine or I'm here for you. If he/she is crying, try to bring them somewhere where it is quiet and they have the whole day to express their feelings about the situation. There you need to listen attentively because he/she needs your advice from here. You need to give a soft voice because he/she has a lot of pain and having a soft tone voice will make he/she calmed. Eye contact is one of them to show that you are listening and it really helps you to actually listen to them.